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What Generation Are You From, and What Generation Do You Feel You Belong To?

It's a question that makes me reflect every time someone asks me. Born in 1980, I’ve always seen myself as part of Generation X, but occasionally, I catch myself feeling closer to millennials—or even to Gen Z at times. This generational mirror game is like trying to figure out my role in a grand play: there are moments where I feel like the lead, and others when I feel like a mere extra.

Picture a boomer who listens to Nirvana and has a passion for TikTok. It's not that rare, and it's not just about musical tastes or favourite apps. It's a matter of identity, and sometimes, it can have surprising psychological effects. When faced with this confusion, a dilemma arises: does it make us feel inadequate, or more open and versatile?

Moving between generations feels a bit like being a chameleon. One day you’re binge-watching Friends on the sofa, and the next day you're scrolling through TikTok for make-up hacks. How can you feel at home in a world that’s changing so quickly?

This uncertainty can lead to various psychological effects. If you feel part of Generation Y but have the age of Gen X, an identity crisis might loom. You start to wonder, “Should I dress like a millennial? Should I use slang I barely understand?” Your mind becomes a circus of conflicting thoughts, and it’s hard to tell if you’re having a mid-life crisis or just a style meltdown.

Then there’s the irony of feeling like part of a generation you don’t technically belong to. Being a "millennial" means being used to exploring and adapting, so why can’t you feel like Gen Z? We’re part of an ever-evolving generation, and every time we interact with the younger ones, there’s something new to learn.

So, if you feel confused about your generational identity, don’t worry! We’re all in this together, like a group of students trying to figure out their place in the grand classroom of life. The next time someone asks you what generation you’re from, remember: it’s not so much about where you’re placed, but how you feel inside.